Let's talk about the subject of attracting women. I often get questions regarding how to attract women, or what to do in order to attract women.
A common concern that men have is how to steer clear of making those significant mistakes on the first date that stops ever enjoying a second date or attaining a sexual relationship (rather than a friendship). I'll discuss some of them in this article.
Well, there are several mistakes a guy may make. Let me summarize the most typical ones here.
The largest mistakes guys make on first dates are:
1) Talking about themselves too much. Trying to be interesting instead of interested.
2) Not asking questions and not listening enough.
3) Focusing a lot on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.
4) Not employing subtleties enough (What a woman understands)
5) Not developing sexual flow or interest.
6) Not making future. (A relationship is dependent on future.)
The initial mistake that most guys make is that they go on the first date and talk all about themselves, sort of strut around telling the girl that he's got this car, and he's got this career and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that trying to impress the girl that he is a wonderful catch.
What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that's not going to be able to look after her at all, because he is not interested in her and doesn't listen to what she has to state. A bad relationship prospect.
Another way of saying it is that guys act as if they are very interesting. They figure they need to be interesting for a girl to be thinking about them. Sorry guys, but it doesn't work that way. You have to be interested in the girl, not interesting to get her attention. Did you ever see two interesting people on a date. It's hilarious! They are both so busy wanting to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be interested in another.
If you don't know what I am talking about, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is interested in you? Or a girl who is telling you how cool she is, how hot she really is, etc, and all sorts of other interesting issues.
Interesting leads to many rejections and "platonic" friendships by the way. Girls will be friends with a guy who is really interesting. Why? Girls like to be amused and entertained. Interesting men are kind of like children to them. A source of non-sexual enjoyment and pleasure.
That is all we have room to discuss about here, but you can get more data on the other five mistakes at Dating To Relating.
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